When we have to decide on how to discipline a toddler, we have to ideally adopt a strategy which is not overly strict or authoritarian but neither is it too easy going or permissive. Drawing that fine line can be rather difficult at times.The other thing we have to learn is that we really have to be consistent and that we cannot have kinder or more tolerant days. We really have to stick to our guns but that does not exclude some flexibility, as long as we do not waver from the bottom line.Strangely enough, we can use distraction at times to avoid a situation where we do not even have to bother about how to discipline a toddler. The distraction puts them on another track and the threatened bad behavior is abandoned and becomes a non event.The distraction technique also works when the reduce stretch marks y get into a risky situation which could be harmful for them. All you have to do is to distract them with another toy or announce a new activity.The idea of whether something is right or wrong, safe or dangerous is not within their conceptual grasp as yet. They certainly know or realize from the emotional point of view whether we are happy or not with their behavior.We can also use distraction techniques when they go into a meltdown by soothing them, comforting them or cuddling them of they will allow us to do that. Instead of condemning the behavior, we are sending the right message here of offering affection, support and protection. After all, the reasons for the outburst are often connected with a toddler’s needs and he has reacted that way because he has reached his or her limit.